This ten-question quiz asks how often different forms of attention feel important to you. It sorts your answers into five categories — Words, Time together, Practical help, Small gifts, and Touch — and shows which one scores highest. The method is published below, nothing is sent anywhere, and your answers are not saved.
Read each statement and choose how often it fits you: never, rarely, often, or always. There are two questions per category, mixed on purpose.
If you skip any question, the tool names the unanswered ones when you try to see the result. Fill them in to get your scores.
Your result page lists Words, Time together, Practical help, Small gifts, and Touch with a score out of 6. The highest total is your main preference.
Build an image with your result and send it to someone. Only the winning category and scores are drawn; your individual answers are not included.
Preferences can shift over time. Return and answer again whenever you want; your previous answers are not kept between visits.
Ten questions feed this quiz, two for each of the five categories: Words, Time together, Practical help, Small gifts, and Touch. Every answer earns points on a fixed scale: never = 0, rarely = 1, often = 2, always = 3. Points are added within each category, and every category has the same maximum of 6 because it comes from two questions, each worth up to 3 points.
There are no hidden weights and no adjustments—the category with the highest total wins. If two or more categories tie, the one listed first in this order wins: Words, Time together, Practical help, Small gifts, Touch. The result screen shows the tied marker, so you know the winner was chosen by the rule rather than by a gap.
The ten questions are mixed on purpose; putting the two questions from the same category side by side would hint at what is being measured. Instead, you answer each statement on its own. All five totals are shown with their maximum of 6, not just the winner, so you can see how close the other categories came.
You answer ten statements, two for each of five categories. Each answer becomes points: never is 0, rarely is 1, often is 2, always is 3. Points are added within each category, and the highest total wins. The result shows all five totals out of 6, so you can see how close the others came. There are no extra weights.
Ten divides evenly by five: each category gets exactly two questions. With eight, one category would have only one question and its maximum would be lower. That would reward the number of questions rather than your answers. Two questions per category keep every maximum at 6, so the scores are directly comparable.
The category that appears earlier in this order wins: Words, Time together, Practical help, Small gifts, Touch. The result screen marks the tie, so you know the winner came from the rule, not from a real gap. You can still look at the scores and decide which feels more like you.
No. This is a separate preference quiz with its own wording for the categories. It does not use the branded questionnaire or book, and it is not affiliated with that material. The five category names used here are our own plain labels, not the trademarked terms.
Yes. Preferences can shift with relationships, life stages, or what you need right now. Nothing about the quiz assumes a fixed personality type. If you answer again in a few months and get a different top category, that simply reflects how you answered on that day.
No. The quiz runs in your browser, and your answers are not sent to a server or saved on your device. There is no account and no hidden tracking. If you share a result card, only the winning category and scores are drawn on it, not your individual responses.